The Atlas
Thirteen regions of the heart.
When things are uncertain or too much
9 feelingsStress, overwhelm, fear, and the weight of not-knowing.
Stress · Overwhelm · Anxiety · Worry · Avoidance · Excitement · Dread · Fear · Vulnerability
When we compare
8 feelingsHow we measure ourselves against others — and what it costs us.
Comparison · Admiration · Reverence · Envy · Jealousy · Resentment · Schadenfreude · Freudenfreude
When things don't go as planned
7 feelingsBoredom, disappointment, frustration, and unmet expectations.
Boredom · Disappointment · Expectations · Regret · Discouragement · Resignation · Frustration
When it's beyond us
6 feelingsAwe, wonder, curiosity — the feelings of standing at an edge.
Awe · Wonder · Confusion · Curiosity · Interest · Surprise
When things aren't what they seem
8 feelingsNostalgia, dissonance, discomfort, and the slipperiness of feeling.
Amusement · Bittersweetness · Nostalgia · Cognitive Dissonance · Discomfort · Disgust · Dehumanization · Objectification
When we're hurting
5 feelingsSadness, grief, despair — the heavier rooms of the heart.
Anguish · Hopelessness · Despair · Sadness · Grief
When we're with others
6 feelingsCompassion, empathy, and the boundaries that hold them together.
Compassion · Pity · Empathy · Sympathy · Boundaries · Comparative Suffering
When we fall short
6 feelingsShame, guilt, embarrassment, and the path back to ourselves.
Shame · Self-Compassion · Perfectionism · Guilt · Humiliation · Embarrassment
When we search for connection
7 feelingsBelonging, loneliness, and what it means to be seen.
Belonging · Fitting In · Connection · Disconnection · Insecurity · Invisibility · Loneliness
When the heart is open
9 feelingsLove, trust, heartbreak — the risks of caring.
Love · Lovelessness · Heartbreak · Trust · Self-Trust · Betrayal · Defensiveness · Flooding · Hurt
When life is good
8 feelingsJoy, gratitude, calm — the spacious feelings.
Joy · Happiness · Calm · Contentment · Gratitude · Foreboding Joy · Relief · Tranquility
When we feel wronged
6 feelingsAnger, contempt, and the line between hurt and harm.
Anger · Contempt · Disgust · Dehumanization · Hate · Self-Righteous Anger
When we self-assess
3 feelingsPride, humility, and the stories we tell about who we are.
Pride · Hubris · Humility