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Places we go when we feel wronged

When we feel wronged

Anger, contempt, and the line between hurt and harm.

An emotion we feel when something gets in the way of a desired outcome or when we believe there's a violation of how things should be.

Contempt

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'I am better than you.' The most corrosive emotion in relationships — predicts disconnection.

Often confused with: Disgust

Moral revulsion. When aimed at people rather than acts, it tips toward dehumanization.

Often confused with: Contempt

Dehumanization

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Seeing the person who hurt you as less than human. Feels protective; corrodes you.

Sustained, intense aversion. Often shame and fear in disguise.

Self-Righteous Anger

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Anger that doubles as moral superiority — 'I'm right and you're wrong, and that makes me good.'